Uta Demontis
Sex and Relationship Coaching
Do issues around intimacy keep you from living a fulfilled life?
Then Sex and Relationship Coaching is for you!
I work with men, women and couples who have sexual issues or relationship difficulties that they don’t know how to solve on their own.
Common Sexual Concerns of Men
- Do you ejaculate earlier than you’d like to? Would you like to last longer?
- Do you find it difficult to get or keep an erection?
- Are you anxious about performing sexually?
- Are you uncomfortable with your body?
- Would you like to become an extraordinary lover?
- Would you like to attract a partner into your life?
- Are you getting older and are concerned about how ageing affects your sexuality?
- Would you like to experience the fullness of your sexual potential?
Common Sexual Concerns of Women
- Do you have litte or no interest in sex?
- Do issues around intimacy keep you from living a fulfilled life?
- Do you find it difficult to experience orgasm (either on your own or with a partner)?
- Do you feel unable to enjoy sex?
- Do you feel there must be more to sex than your are currently experiencing?
- Are you uncomfortable with your sexuality?
- Do you find sexual intercourse painful?
- Do you find it difficult to allow yourself to have pleasure?
- Are you uncomfortable with your body?
- Are you single? Struggling to get into a relationship? Would you like to attract a partner into your life?
- Are you getting older and are concerned about how ageing affects your sexuality?
- Would you like to experience the fullness of your sexual potential?
Common Concerns of Couples
Many couples seek out sex coaching who have problems that are not necessarily sexual in nature. There can be many underlying issues that are not being dealt with. When those issues are left unresolved or ignored, their problems eventually find their manifestation in the bedroom.
Issues such as communication difficulties, trust, fear of rejection or power struggles are some of those factors that contribute to a couple’s relationship and sexual problems.
- Has your relationship much changed since the birth of your child?
- Has one of you lost all interest in having sex?
- Do you want to get great sex back into your marriage?
- Do issues around intimacy keep you apart?
- Do you always seem to misunderstand each other?
- Would you like to explore new avenues of sexual expression?
- Are you getting older and are concerned about how ageing affects your sexuality?
What Is Sex Coaching?
Sex Coaching is the union of sexology and life coaching.
The Sex Coaching approach offers a powerful, empowering and efficient way of dealing with a wide range of sexual concerns.
Sex Coaching, however, is not therapy.
Sex Coaching
- Looks at the present and into the future
- Asks what can be done and how can you reach your goal
- Is client centred
- Is an interactive and participatory process
- Is result-driven
- Is a collaboration between client and coach
- Is non-pathologising
Sex Coaching focuses on the present and the future. Sex Coaching does not focus on the past. We usually only look into the past when we go through a brief intake of your sex and relationship history. We look at what can be done to move you into your desired future.
Sex Coaching is client-centred. Your desire to reach your goals for your sexual fulfilment is at the centre of the process. The process is driven by you – the client. It is not driven by me, your coach. You are at all times responsible and accountable for your decisions and choices. This approach empowers you to take control over your life.
Sex Coaching is dynamic, interactive and proactive. It is an interactive and participatory process. We draw upon many techniques of various disciplines. At the centre lies clinical sexology. Sex Coaching involves talking, carrying out home assignments, practical and psychological exercises, guided meditations and visualisations, NLP techniques, reading, learning from videos, journalling and more.
Sex Coaching is driven by results and the specific outcomes that you want to achieve. And we work towards reaching your desired goals, dreams and visions.
Sex Coaching is a collaboration between you and me as your coach. It is team work. I act as your guide that shows you the way on your journey towards sexual fulfilment and self-realisation.
Sex Coaching is non-pathologising. Sex Coaching is sex positive. You are not a patient with a sexual dysfunction. You are a client who has questions or concerns around your sexuality and relationships.
As a sex coach I am a collaborator in the coaching process. I use a variety of techniques from many disciplines, relying on the heart of clinical sexology.
Coaching is not a quick-fix but a process. It is a participatory and interactive process which also includes home assignments. These may include exploring ideas, experimenting with new behaviours, skills and tools or learning from books and videos. It is a very fluid and dynamic way of working where you, as the client, and your goals are at the centre.
Coaching helps you to develop greater self-awareness. Developing self-awareness is essential for better relationships and for a fulfilling sex and love life.
Why Choose Coaching?
Clients choose Sex Coaching for many reasons.
There are clients that seek out Sex Coaching to address and resolve a specific sexual concern. Others may have questions around their sexuality. Then there are clients and couples who want to resolve issues in their relationship. Others do not have any particular sexual concern but simply desire to enhance their sex and love life. They may want to bring more joy, intimacy and pleasure into their love life.
You may want to
- Resolve sexual concerns and issues
- Have more fulfilling relationships
- Experience greater intimacy and connection with your partner
- Become an extraordinary lover
- Experience deeper joy, pleasure and love
- Improve your self image and body image
- Have greater self confidence and self esteem
- Transform confusion, guilt and shame to realise your full enjoyment of healthy sexuality
- Awaken your sexual energy / increase your libido
- Attract a partner into your life
- Improve your sexual confidence and skills
Any adult can benefit from Sex Coaching. Anyone in a relationship can benefit from Sex and Relationship Coaching. I work with women, men and couples. Coaching is available for people of all sexual orientations and gender identities.
Coaching is also helpful for those individuals who are currently single and want to prepare for a relationship and attract a partner into their lives.
Testimonials
‘I have worked with Uta for around 2 years, initially coming to see her when I discovered I had low sperm count and poor sperm quality at a time when my wife and I were trying to start a family.
Having been expertly, professionally and compassionately guided through the basic Tao practises we have worked with sexual energy and the journey I have taken has been an amazing one of self discovery and awareness that has enriched my life beyond my initial expectations. My practises are now at an advanced stage and my wife and I are now proud parents as well as discovering more recently that we are able to conceive naturally and I can only put this gift down in part to the Tao work I have undertaken with Uta.
As a result, Tao practises are intertwined into my daily life, enhancing the relationship with myself and with others both personally and professionally. All I can say to summarise is that Uta is a great teacher, compassionate, completely professional and at ease with working with men and I would recommend working with her to enrich your life. As testament to this, my wife and I are now embarking on the sacred love practises to further deepen our relationship, both spiritually and sexually.’
- S (Male)
‘You have been a very special help to me recently and I thank you from the depths.
You have a treasured gift that has set many things back on the right path.’
- Client (Male)
‘Uta, thank you for pivate session. That was amazing journey to my body, my heart and my soul.’
- Client (Female)
I invite you to explore my website www.sex-coach.co.uk to find out more.
Click here to book a session with Uta Demontis.
